Traditions of the Tinguian: a Study in Philippine Folk-Lore — Page 15
The girl's people discuss the proposition, and if they are favorable they set a day for the _pakálon_--a celebration at which the price to be paid for the bride is decided upon (p. 49).
女方家人商议这一提议,如果他们同意,便会定下举行"pakálon"的日期——这是一种决定新娘聘礼价格的庆典(第49页)。
The parents of the groom then return home after having left some small present, such as a jar or an agate bead, as a sign of engagement (p. 128) [14].
新郎的父母随后留下一些小礼物,例如一只罐子或一颗玛瑙珠,作为订婚的信物,然后返回家中(第128页)[14]。
The _pakálon_ is held a few days later at the girl's home, and for this event her people prepare a quantity of food (p. 72).
数日后,"pakálon"在女方家中举行,女方家人为此准备了大量食物(第72页)。
On the agreed day the close friends and relatives of both families will assemble.
在约定的日子,双方家庭的至亲好友将齐聚一堂。
Those who accompany the groom carry jars and pigs, either in part payment for the bride, or to serve as food for the company (pp. 72, 128).
陪同新郎前来的人携带着罐子和猪,或作为部分聘礼,或用作宴席上的食物(第72、128页)。
The first hours are spent in bargaining over the price the girl should bring, but when this is settled a feast is prepared, and then all indulge in dancing the _tadek_ (p. 59) [15].
最初数小时用于就女方聘礼的价格进行讨价还价,待价格议定后便准备宴席,随后众人尽情跳起"tadek"舞(第59页)[15]。
When the payment is made a portion is distributed among the girl's relatives (pp. 72, 74), but her parents retain the greater part for themselves [16].
聘礼付清后,其中一部分将分给女方的亲属(第72、74页),但她的父母会为自己留下大部分[16]。
The groom cannot yet claim his bride, although in one case he is allowed to take her immediately after the _pakálon_ by making a special payment for the privilege (p. 74).
新郎尚不能迎娶新娘,但在某一情形下,他可以通过额外支付一笔费用,在"pakálon"结束后立即将她带走(第74页)。
A few nights later the groom goes to the girl's home carrying with him an empty jar with which he makes the final payment (p. 73).
数夜后,新郎带着一只空罐子前往女方家中,以此完成最终的聘礼支付(第73页)。
Vocabulary
- 女方
- nǚ fāng — The woman's side or party in a matter
- 家人
- jiā rén — Family members; one's family
- 商议
- shāng yì — To discuss and deliberate together on something
- 这一
- zhè yī — This one; referring to a particular item or matter
- 提议
- tí yì — To propose or suggest; a proposal or suggestion
- 如果
- rú guǒ — If; supposing that a condition is met
- 他们
- tā men — They; third-person plural pronoun
- 同意
- tóng yì — To agree; to give consent or approval
- 便会
- biàn huì — Then will; indicating a consequent action follows
- 定下
- dìng xia — To set or fix something, such as a date
- 举行
- jǔ xíng — To hold or conduct a formal event or ceremony
- 的
- de — Structural particle indicating possession or modification
- 日期
- rì qī — Date; a specific calendar day
- 这是
- zhè shì — This is; used to introduce or identify something
- 一种
- yī zhǒng — A kind of; one type of something
- 决定
- jué dìng — To decide; a decision made about something
- 新娘
- xīn niáng — Bride; a woman on her wedding day
- 聘礼
- pìn lǐ — Betrothal gifts; bride price paid by groom's family
- 价格
- jià gé — Price; the cost or value of something
- 庆典
- qìng diǎn — Celebration ceremony; a formal festive occasion
- 第
- dì — Ordinal prefix indicating rank or sequence number
- 页
- yè — Page; a single leaf of a book
- 新郎
- xīn láng — Groom; a man on his wedding day
- 父母
- fù mǔ — Parents; father and mother together
- 随后
- suí hòu — Shortly after; subsequently following an event
- 留下
- liú xia — To leave behind; to remain or keep something
- 一些
- yī xiē — Some; a small quantity of something
- 小
- xiǎo — Small; little in size or degree
- 礼物
- lǐ wù — Gift; a present given to someone
- 例如
- lì rú — For example; used to introduce an illustration
- 一只
- yī zhī — One (item); measure word for certain objects
- 罐子
- guàn zi — Jar; a container typically made of ceramic or glass
- 或
- huò — Or; indicating an alternative option
- 一颗
- yī kē — One (small round object); measure word for beads etc.
- 作为
- zuò wéi — As; serving in the role or capacity of
- 订婚
- dìng hūn — To get engaged; formal betrothal between two people
- 信物
- xìn wù — Token of pledge; an object symbolizing a commitment
- 然后
- rán hòu — Then; afterward; following a previous action
- 返回
- fǎn huí — To return; to go back to a previous place
- 家中
- jiā zhōng — At home; within one's household
- 数日后
- shù rì hòu — Several days later; after a few days pass
- 在
- zài — At; in; on; indicating location or time
- 为此
- wèi cǐ — For this purpose; because of this reason
- 准备了
- zhǔn bèi le — Prepared; has gotten ready in advance
- 大量
- dà liàng — A large quantity; an abundance of something
- 食物
- shí wù — Food; edible items for consumption
- 约定
- yuē dìng — Agreed-upon appointment; a set arrangement between parties
- 日子
- rì zi — Day; a particular day or period of time
- 双方
- shuāng fāng — Both parties; the two sides involved
- 家庭
- jiā tíng — Family; a household unit of related people
- 至亲
- zhì qīn — Closest relatives; most intimate family members
- 好友
- hǎo yǒu — Good friends; close companions
- 将
- jiāng — Will; about to; indicates future action
- 齐聚一堂
- qí jù yī táng — To gather together in one place; to assemble
- 陪同
- péi tóng — To accompany; to go along with someone
- 前来
- qián lái — To come forward; to arrive at a place
- 人
- rén — Person; people; human being
- 携带着
- xié dài zhe — Carrying; bringing along something with oneself
- 和
- hé — And; together with; connecting nouns or clauses
- 猪
- zhū — Pig; a domesticated swine animal
- 部分
- bù fen — Part; a portion or section of a whole
- 用作
- yòng zuò — Used as; serving the function of something
- 宴席
- yàn xí — Banquet; a formal feast or celebratory meal
- 上
- shàng — On; above; upon a surface or occasion
- 最初
- zuì chū — Initially; at the very beginning of something
- 数小时
- shù xiǎo shí — Several hours; a few hours of time
- 用于
- yòng yú — Used for; applied to a particular purpose
- 就
- jiù — Then; exactly; with regard to; indicating immediacy
- 进行
- jìn xíng — To carry out; to conduct or proceed with something
- 讨价还价
- tǎo jià huán jià — To bargain; to haggle over a price
- 待
- dài — To wait until; once a condition is fulfilled
- 议定后
- yì dìng hòu — After an agreement is reached through negotiation
- 便
- biàn — Then; thereupon; indicating a following result
- 准备
- zhǔn bèi — To prepare; to get ready for something
- 众人
- zhòng rén — Everyone; all the people present
- 尽情
- jìn qíng — To one's heart's content; without restraint or inhibition
- 跳起
- tiào qǐ — To start dancing; to jump up and begin dancing
- 舞
- wǔ — Dance; a form of rhythmic movement to music
- 付清后
- fù qīng hòu — After paying in full; once full payment is made
- 其中
- qí zhōng — Among them; within that group or amount
- 一部分
- yī bù fen — A portion; one part of a larger whole
- 分给
- fēn gěi — To distribute to; to give out shares to others
- 亲属
- qīn shǔ — Relatives; family members by blood or marriage
- 但
- dàn — But; however; indicating contrast or exception
- 她
- tā — She; third-person singular feminine pronoun
- 会
- huì — Will; can; to be able or likely to do
- 为
- wèi — For; on behalf of; indicating purpose or benefit
- 自己
- zì jǐ — Oneself; reflexive pronoun referring to the subject
- 大部分
- dà bù fen — The majority; most of a total amount
- 尚不能
- shàng bù néng — Still cannot; not yet able to do something
- 迎娶
- yíng qǔ — To take a bride home; to formally marry a woman
- 某一
- mǒu yī — A certain; referring to a particular unspecified case
- 情形下
- qíng xíng xia — Under a certain circumstance or situation
- 他
- tā — He; third-person singular masculine pronoun
- 可以
- kě yǐ — Can; may; to be permitted or able to
- 通过
- tōng guò — Through; by means of; to pass through something
- 额外
- é wài — Extra; additional beyond what is normally expected
- 支付
- zhī fù — To pay; to make a financial payment
- 一笔
- yī bǐ — A sum of money; one lump payment amount
- 费用
- fèi yòng — Cost; fee; expenses incurred for something
- 结束后
- jié shù hòu — After something ends or concludes
- 立即
- lì jí — Immediately; right away without any delay
- 带走
- dài zǒu — To take away; to bring someone or something along
- 带着
- dài zhe — Carrying; bringing along; accompanied by something
- 空
- kōng — Empty; vacant; containing nothing inside
- 前往
- qián wǎng — To go to; to head toward a destination
- 以此
- yǐ cǐ — By this means; using this as the method
- 完成
- wán chéng — To complete; to finish accomplishing something
- 最终
- zuì zhōng — Finally; ultimately; in the end
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